Our last blog covered the introduction to nipplegasms, while this blog gets straight to the point – how to achieve said nipplegasms.
Before we start with some tips and tricks, it is important to note that not all people experience pleasure the same way, and even within the bracket of nipplegasms, preferences and sensitivities can vary greatly. In essence, what feels pleasurable for one person may not necessarily be the same for another. As always, we urge that communication and consent are key – if you are the receiving partner or the giving partner, always communicate with the other person about your sexual preferences so that your collective experiences can be pleasurable on the whole (whether the receiving partner experiences a nipplegasm or not).
Now since that’s done with, let’s get started:
1. Focus on the pleasure.
The first (and most important tip): Don’t focus on the nipplegasm. Focus instead on the sensations, the pleasure you derive (or the pleasure you are providing to your partner).
Most people live in the head; we neglect to be present and live in the moment. Women, in particular, innately worry about how their bodies look and forget to embrace what’s happening in the now. So, the biggest challenge is to let go, have fun, and basically, enjoy cranking the ‘nipple’ lever of the jackpot machine (if you’re the giving partner), and who knows, both of you may end up winning the jackpot too!
2. Stimulate various parts of the body.
As they say, providing pleasure is a delicate art – too much focus on one area at one time isn’t necessarily the best route (unless it’s what your partner is asking you for). To prime the body for pleasure, alternate between genital touch and nipple touch, taking advantage of the fact that both areas are wired to the same place in the brain. The more both regions get stimulated simultaneously, the stronger the connections between them will become.
3. Use toys and other enhancers.
Whip out the vibrators! Don’t be afraid to experiment with some handy sex toys designed for nipple stimulation. If you’re truly daring, you can also try nipple clamps. Remember, everything is on the table if it’s something your partner is comfortable with.
4. Don’t neglect yourself
You may be the giving partner, and your partner could be the receiving one, but don’t forget about yourself in your pursuit of giving them pleasure. The more you play with yourself, the more connected you could feel with yourself, and with your partner, as a byproduct. As they say, pleasure in every realm is required for overall well being; yours, your partner’s, and your relationship’s.
Nipular stimulation and nipplegasms, at the end of the day, aren’t as unachievable as urban myths and legends have made them out to be; with a right combination of comfort, clarity, communication, confidence and some certified kinkyness, they can be achieved with utmost ease 😉
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